Ivy Cao

I don’t like drama, but I need it to feel alive.

Sometimes, I hate drama. But other times, I feel like drama is a blessing. Right now, I feel so empty — because nothing happened. My mind is just… blank. Yesterday, there was some drama: I had a flat tire in the morning and had to get it fixed before I could drive to work. ItContinue reading “I don’t like drama, but I need it to feel alive.”

Stop Judging Based on Gender or Nationality

It’s unfair for people to judge others based on gender, nationality, or skin color — whether those judgments are compliments or criticisms. This tendency is deeply rooted in human nature. For example, when commenting on someone’s appearance, men are often called handsome while women are called beautiful. But really, both terms mean the same thing:Continue reading “Stop Judging Based on Gender or Nationality”

Thought of the day

I suffer from the nice girl syndrome! I have a strong desire to please others and offer help proactively. However, I’ve noticed that this can sometimes make people feel pressured rather than truly helped. In the end, they might even feel like they’re doing me a favor instead of appreciating my assistance. I realized thisContinue reading “Thought of the day”

Life diary on Feb 2, 2024

Yesterday was a bit of a time drain for me. My family and I are about to head back to our hometown for the Spring Festival, which is around 1000 km away. It’s colder there, so I thought it would be a good idea to grab some cozy down jackets to stay comfy. I thenContinue reading “Life diary on Feb 2, 2024”

Life difference between thirties and twenties

In my thirties, life feels completely different from my twenties. Back then, I had boundless energy and an insatiable curiosity about the world. I was always eager to explore new places, try different foods, and meet new people. But as time went on, I got married and had children. Suddenly, the world lost some ofContinue reading “Life difference between thirties and twenties”

I miss my hometown

So that constant desire and yearning stays, and you can only wish. That nostalgia can stay like a rumination within you. Every day, that familiar nostalgia for your hometown pulses like a heartbeat, reminding you of your desire to go back. I was born and raised in a small village which is located in JiangxiContinue reading “I miss my hometown”

Welcome to Ivy Land

Hi my dear visitors, I’m so excited to launch my very first blog. My name is Ivy. I live in Guangdong, China. I am a mom of two at 32 years old. I work in the international business industry as a salesperson, and I am passionate about marketing and social sciences. Currently, I am tryingContinue reading “Welcome to Ivy Land”